for you girls who cry over assholes ;
if he wanted you that badly , he would ask you to be his
if he wanted to talk to you , he would put effort into calling you or texting you
if he cares so much about you , he would show it
why are you busy wasting your time on someone who doesn’t do any of that for you?
there are other guys out there and you’re actually missing out on someone who actually gives a fuck about you , who will be afraid to lose you
so stop leaning your happiness and expectations on a guy that brings disappointment to you all the time and start leaning it towards that guy whose worth it .
Girls Need To Realize ;
guys don’t care if you talk to other guys . they don’t care if you’re friends with other guys . But when you’re sitting next to them , and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him , without even introducing them , yeah, it pisses them off . It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that your boyfriends still there. they don’t care if a guy calls/texts you , but at 2 in the morning they do get a little concerned .Nothing is that important at 2 AM that it can’t wait till the morning . Also, when they tell you you’re pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, they mean it . Don’t tell them they’re wrong . they’ll stop trying to convince you . The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence . Don’t be mad when they hold the door open . Take advantage of the mood they’re in . Let them pay for you! Don’t feel bad . most of them enjoy doing it . It’s expected . Smile and say ‘thank you’ . Kiss them when no one’s watching . If you kiss them when you know somebody’s looking , they’ll be more impressed .You don’t have to get dressed up for them . If they’re going out with you in the first place , you don’t have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own . they like you for who you are and not what you are . Honestly, a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s or in his t-shirt and boxers , not all dolled up. Don’t take everything they say seriously . Sarcasm is a beautiful thing; see the beauty in it . they like girls with a sense of humour . Don’t get angry easily . Stop using magazines/media as your bible . Don’t talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of them . It’s boring, and they really don’t care . You have girlfriends for that . Girls, I cannot stress this enough : if you aren’t being treated right by a guy , don’t wait for him to change ! Dip on his sorry ass , the sad disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect . Someone who will honor your morals . Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest . Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes . Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel . Someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes and say ‘I love you’ and actually mean it . Give the nice guys a chance.
